To dream that you maintain a harem, denotes that you are wasting your best energies on low pleasures. Life holds fair promises, if your desires are rightly directed.
If a woman dreams that she is an inmate of a harem, she will seek pleasure where pleasure is unlawful, as her desires will be toward married men as a rule.
If she dreams that she is a favorite of a harem, she will be preferred before others in material pleasures, but the distinction will be fleeting.
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This dream tends to be related to sexual appetites, since it reflects repressed desires, as well as your emotional relationships in general.
In a man, this dream may warn him about the presence of external circumstances that distract him from his true objectives.
In a woman, it can represent the desire to have her wishes for social status and luxury fulfilled, although for that she must give up her independence and dignity.
Whether you are a woman and dreamed of being in one, or a man and dreamed of keeping one, the symbol is a straightforward one of busy times ahead with the opposite sex. Don’t overdo it.